Outsourcing your emotions part II

As promised I am here to discuss the way that we outsource our emotions when we have no surrogate to pin them on. This is a tad more challenging than loaning out your fears and insecurities to a trusted someone. In reality what is happening is you have to step outside of yourself. Do you ever think about that? I like the question that I believe I first read in one of Tim Ferriss' books, "What would you do if you knew you could not fail?" It's an interesting question in any regard but especially intriguing when applied to sports. You see sports in general, but especially competitive sports, have one of the fastest feedback loops that are available to us to gauge effort, work ethic, raw talent, genetic potential, stoicism, charity, heart, courage, tenacity, leadership... The list goes on and on and on. Why? Because you basically get to live out a life's worth of decisions every time there is a match, or meet, or exhibition. There is no sport that this is more obvious in than weightlifting. There is no fancy equipment. There are very few rules to cower behind. Come on this isn't soccer, we don't get pitied for someone stepping on our toes and freaking out. (That'll get you thrown out)
So lets reapply the question for our purposes, "What would you do if you knew you could not fail...on the platform?" Would you pull a world record snatch that no mater your weight class would be forever unbeatable? Would you squat jerk 400kg? No! There's no way that would happen, unless you had put in the work to get there.
What's the deal then? How do we keep from shaking in our Romo's while on that glorious platform? The answer is right there, no not there. I mean right there, where it says, "You didn't put the work in." So the new question is this, "Is this a cop out? Is Lance just too lazy to write something insightful because he is ready for bed?"
Possibly.
Are you just copping out because you aren't willing to accept that work is the fountain of success? Maybe.
Before anyone get's worked up about this whole work thing I supposed I better define what I'm talking about in this sense, because it's not just endless grinding away under a bar.
When I think of the work that goes into making an olympic level lifter time under the bar is actually very low on the list. The two things that are highest on the list are as follows. Trust in the process, and having a cause/purpose and I'll tell you why.
When you trust a process to the level that they do everything in your life conforms in some way. You eat differently, you sleep with a purpose, you plan days around training and not the other way around. You see your sport spilling over into things that seem irrelevant like your religion and how you perceive it, granting you clarity. You trust the process so much that you are willing to do anything to find the purest form of said process with those who know it best. You become the perfect reflection of the process because it has molded you.
Living a life like that can't be easy, which is why you need a cause or purpose. There has to be something so invigorating that floors you so much that you are willing to give your life for it (figuratively speaking...sort of) or you're going to fold before you ever even hear the bell for round one. One great example comes to mind that I saw on lifthar8.com. Kirksman was talking about how many people believe that the only reason that China wins is because they all use steroids. Undoubtedly there is steroid use in every federation but his rebuttal was profound and I'm paraphrasing of course, "No I don't think that is why they win. They are winning because these people are given a chance to save their families." In other words because of the way thing are set up over there weightlifting gives them a way to keep food on a table that otherwise might have none. I don't know about you but that sounds like a killer good cause. So for some it is responsibility that put's fire in their bones. For others it's patriotism that defines how they live, or God, or fame and fortune. Whatever it is you have to have one.
So you guessed it the only way to step outside of yourself when there is no one available to wear your emotions on their sleeve for you. You had better have been living your life in such a way that it culminates in an advantageous way. Without either of those two things you're not getting 100kg over your head let alone 400kg.

Fortunately though this is the way that everything in life works (at least by my assessment). If you want to have it and be it then LIVE IT.

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